16/04 - The Two Logics

One thing you always have to remember in life is that there are always two kind of logic. An emotional logic (what I call opinions) and the logical logic (something I refer to as the situation's logic).
Because this whole theory is designed to help people with life's issues, we'll look at these logics from an issue-based point of view. Arguments, big or small, are one of the most common issues or issue-starts, in a typical two-sided argument you have you're emotional logics - the conflicting opinions of the two people - and the situations logic - the "right" answer to the problem that can make the best out of situations for both people.. If anyone ever tells you to walk in the another persons shoes, what they are saying is understand the other persons logic. This can help in some cases, but I find the most effective method is to look down on the issue from an outside view completely, so you can see the situations logic, but being able to see the other persons logic is a good way of putting together the situations logic. As in all things, you need to be able to admit when you're wrong, and remember nothing will differ until a main factor or you change.
In case you are confused, which I probably would be if I wasn't writing this, here is a basic definition of these logics:
Emotional Logic - A logic that has been formed by what your emotions are telling you to do, think and feel. This logic wants you to make the best out of the situations. A more selfish logic.
Logical Logic - A logic that has been formed without any rolls of emotions, using only plain facts. This logic wants to make the best out of the situation. A more selfless logic.
This is also when it is good to remember you cannot be totally selfish OR selfless in life, you need a balance of the two. This means if you can use your opinions AND the situations logic, you can be faithful in yourself you are making the right decision about something.